.However what Astrid doesn't understand yet is actually an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses pair of kids-- can verify: The reality that your connection with your moms and dads improvements as well as grows as you each age, as well as perhaps for the better. "Your world centers around [your children] when they are actually children [and also] it is actually a lot job yet charming," O'Hara states. "Later, you truly miss that, considering that at that point you can not receive all of them to accomplish just about anything you desire them to accomplish, considering that they begin building their very own minds, their personal viewpoints." As well as at some point, you end up in the place O'Hara, whose sons are in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself right now, capable to pick up from her youngsters. "They are actually merely such awesome young men," she points out. "I'm certainly not their friend, yet I like having talks with all of them and also understanding just how they think of life.".